How to make the most out of a month? (+ very important note)
Hello Dreamers! How’s it goin’ in Dreamland? We’re BAAAAAACK!! Did ya miss us? We VERY MUCH missed you guys! We’re super sorry that we didn’t post the previous week. We were in our autumn break and we were kinda chilling the whole week. So that explains why we haven’t been posting.
Now before we get into the post, we have something to discuss with you guys, more like a request. So… we kinda want y’all to be honest in the comments. Like we want you guys to comment down below, only if you’ve read the whole post. Please DON’T comment down below just for the sake of it. We want feedback only if you’ve read the post. So don’t comment down below that the post was good, if you hadn’t even read the post. We really request you of this. And we’re NOT trying to offend or point to anyone. Please don’t take this in the wrong way. Now let’s get back into the post!
Anyway, HAPPY OCTOBER!! Is it just us or has this year been moving WAAAAY too fast. It feels like we’ve been living in fast forward (Pun intended. Lmao. Directioners will get this. Comment down below if you do!). And if we think about it, the year is almost over and there is nothing unique about every month. They’re all the same and we don’t get the most out of it. Every day is the same; we wake up, get ready, do school, do homework, watch shows/movies and sleep.
If we look back to all the past years we’ve had, every day and
month was unique and had its share of great events. But this year doesn’t seem
like it. We do the same thing every day and there’s nothing we could do to make
it more alive and interesting ‘cause we can’t step out of the house. Or is there?
THERE IS! And that’s what we’ll be discussing in this post of ‘With Love, P&S’. So how do you make the most out of a month? There are two things you need to make sure you do to make the most out of your month.
1) Set a goal in the
start of a month and reach it at the end of it.
This could be anything you want to accomplish. For example, your goal could be to quit procrastination or it could be to get fit or maybe eat healthy or you could master a new skill. It could be anything. The options are endless. But make sure it’s something you want.
Now, how do we get there? All you have to do is believe in yourself! This is more powerful than you think. Your mind is what controls your body so anything you want to accomplish; it always starts in your mind. Believe that you’ll get it at the end of the month. You can also use affirmations. Tell those affirmations out loud and repeat it whenever you can ‘til you believe it‘s true.
At the same time do NOT push yourself too hard. If you’re goal is too big to be reached at the end of a month, break it down into a bunch of steps. You can do one step every month.
One of the main reasons, we feel like this year is moving too fast is that we are getting caught up in the work and are not realizing that we need to be mindful and live in the moment. And this is VERY IMPORTANT to remember as you’ll always be working towards something. From now on y’all will be working on your monthly goals. So DO NOT get caught up in the work. Enjoy EVERY moment!! Remind yourself that everything you’re doing now will help you reach everything you’ve wanted. Make sure while doing the work you know and realize that you’re doing it. That’s mindfulness - the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something.
If you make sure to do these two things, you WILL make the most out of a month or maybe even a year and who knows, maybe even a lifetime! Take our word for it and try it out!
So that’s all for this post guys!
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With
Love,
P &
S
P.S. The pun we mentioned before in the post was actually a lyric from a 1D song. It’s the first line of the song ‘Up All Night’. You can stream it if you want. Click here to listen!
You have done what I have always been afraid to. You told the readers to be honest with their comments. I used to lie awake at night wondering how can put that in a polite form in my blog, but you did it. Kudos and I'm proud of you.
ReplyDeleteTbh, I really feel like being 15 quickly (and I'm barely even 13... wow), so I try not to think about the date or months... and look how fast 2020 has flown...
My mom once told me, when they were really young, the local people used to say: 'jab aayega bees-o-bees, cheeze hongi bohot saari'
That means: When the year 2020 will arrive, many things will happen.
And look, so much HAS happened.
So stay safe!
Hope you complete your October goals!
at least, that's how I think the rhyme went... maybe the lyrics were different?
DeleteBut the meaning was the same
Well we actually were giving so much thought into it, but we did it finally!! We really want our Dreamers to be honest with us so we figured we'd do this!
DeleteYea, many had so much expectations for 2020 but well...a LOT has happened but like not exactly what we expected. Oh and btw, we both do understand Hindi. We can also speak Hindi, but like not super fluently.
Well, I guessed that your school must be teaching it to you as a third language... or second.
DeleteBut just in case you didn't, or some of your dreamers didn't, it was worth it, I'd say
It was pretty good of you to, you know, to tell everybody to read the post first, cos it's happened with me, like, somebody says something on the comments and I ask them about what they thought about a particular part (with no paranoid intentions) and they just don't reply or reply much, much later
Deletehaha yea! It happens to us too!
Deleteikr, it's so weird when you say something like so obvious but their reaction is like, 'what happened? Oh, right, THAT happened. What happened again?'
DeleteHey guys! loved this post...all thursdays's and sunday's the first thing I do after brushing my teeth and taking a bath is reading your post....I am really impressed with all your posts !!! keep rocking guys!!!And I want you guys to revie the books:
ReplyDelete*the 21 day happiness challenge
*the art of letting go
This means a lot to us! Thank you so much for the support! We'll try review these books ASAP.
Delete@Amritha, just to be sure, can you tell us which book you want us to review.
Delete'The Art of Letting Go' or is it 'The Art of Letting Go: poetry for seekers' ?
Hmm... could you review:
ReplyDelete> Percy Jackson & the Lightening Thief (so that people get interested and read it)
> Aru Shah and the End Of Time (if you've read it)
That's all from MY side that I really want you to review... waiting for your next post @Sunday!
Thank you!!
DeleteWe'll make sure to!!
Wait, so you've read Aru Shah?
Deletebtw, I made a new post... but lemme warn you, when/if you read it, carry an oxygen mask unless you wanna choke and die. Just sayin'. Don't say I didn't warn you.
DeleteNo I haven't but we'll read it!
Deletehahaha lmao
DeleteI'll check it out!
You actually read it.
DeletePlease kill me.
btw, the first book of aru shah is free online (I've read it online for free even tho I have all the books lol)
DeleteYou might have to do some searching, tho, cos I sorta lost the link...
Read the whole post!!! Loved it!! Girls i'm seriously obsessed with ur blog now!!!!! Okay I'm gonna try my best to make the best out of a month!!! So I really want you guys to review the first book of heroes of olympus: The Lost Hero! It's also totally fine of u dont want to!! Btw, LoVeD iT <3
ReplyDeleteCan't wait for the nest post!!!!!
DeleteThank you!! We will!! xx
DeleteGuys seriously amazing and motive blog for me. The days are going faster and I m surprised that it s October month. Every days are the same as u guys said. So will set a goal for this month and will let u guys know(DM). I m really NOT a book reading person so u guys can review any book. Luv u guys and luv ur blogs. Keep on impressing us with ur blogs. Keep posting . Rock! Will stay tuned.
ReplyDeleteTysm!!! Glad to hear from you:)
DeleteThis post motivated me a lot ...This year went very fast that I barely kept any goals . I thought how can we set goals and fulfill them by sitting and sulking in our house ....but after reading ur post !!!!?!? I realize how I wasted these much days just by sulking in my room ... Thanks for waking me up ...Ur posts are very positive ...Keep going !!
ReplyDeleteI have no idea for what you can do review ....but do something very new to all !
DeleteHeyy,
ReplyDeleteAgain, a motivating post. And your request to the readers was a really consodering thing while writing a blog. The speciality of your blog is that it is fun and at the same time it is informative too....❤❤❤❤❤ now you girls have a lot of readers and dont forget that you are carrying the ball❤
Nice tips in keeping the month unique
ReplyDeleteThere is one thing to note that the letter's background color is also black it makes it odd. Just take care of it.
nice and motivative. Keep going
ReplyDeleteThat's true ! Your request
ReplyDeleteAnyways I read the whole post
DeleteNice tips to come over the goal for our month